William Rouel/Ruel Read – Where did Pop Read’s middle name come from?

I have often wondered about my maternal grandfather’s middle name. Rouel? Ruel? Rule?The paper trail for my Pop offers a number of different spellings of this curious name. It kind of sounds like Raoul, but who knows why his parents decided to call him that? Through several years of genealogical research I never came across another family member with that name until recently.

Pop’s parents were Charles William Read, the artist, and Laura Anna Coffin. Laura was born in Portland, Pennsylvania (on the Delaware River) in 1867. By the time Laura was 12 years old, her family had moved to Indianapolis. I know this because her mother, Mary Agnes Salena Simpson, died in Indianapolis when Laura was 12.

So here is the important part – Laura had a cousin named Ruel, born in Pennsylvania in 1874, so she was seven years old when he was born. Laura’s father, William Jones Coffin, and Ruel’s father, Vincent Coffin, were brothers, both employed as cigar makers. It is possible that the two families traveled together from Pennsylvania to Indiana. 

Imagine now that a little girl, about 7 years old, is traveling with her parents and her aunt and uncle with their cute little baby boy. I don’t know how they would have traveled from the eastern edge of Pennsylvania to Indianapolis, but I know it would have taken days, whether by train or horse drawn coach, or by canal/river. There would have been plenty of time for little Laura to fall for her baby cousin Ruel. 

But there was something special about Ruel. He never married and all of the census records I have found for him indicate that he was never employed and in those years when the question was asked, he was listed as ‘unable to work’. When his parents died, Vincent in 1913 and Ellen in 1919, he went to live with his sister, Susan, and her family. Ruel and Susan had two brothers, Albin and Frederick, both of whom went on to live out normal lives. Their obituaries tell us that they spent years working at their respective occupations, Albin as a woodworker, and Frederick as an employee of a brass foundry.

Ruel was different in some way, and we will probably never know why. He must have had some sort of disability, whether it was due to a childhood illness or accident, or some other cause. He lived to be 76 years old, passing away from heart disease in 1951. I find this remarkable and a tribute to those loving family members who cared for him through all those years. 

When Laura and Charles had a baby boy in 1893, the third of eight children, they named him William Ruel/Rouel Read, surely after his mother’s cousin, Ruel.

“The Ancestor I Would Like to Meet”

There are so many ancestors I would like to meet. It’s difficult to choose just one. What would be my reasons to pick any one particular ancestor? My first thought is, I would choose a grandmother because they are mostly silent through time.

One 2nd great grandmother I would like to meet is Lucia Wouters. She faced many challenges in her relatively short life, adapting and making the best of the life that she was given.

Lucia Wouters, born in Holland about 1834, married William Vandeven in Eersel, Noord Brabant, Holland on May 27, 1865. Lucy and William had a son, John Anthony, my great grandfather, born in Holland on May 21, 1866.

The family immigrated to the United States when John was still a baby. They made it to Missouri where William is said to have died working on the railroad in Bollinger County soon after their arrival in Missouri.

Lucy had to make a decision. An immigrant widow with a young son had few options. She married a Jacob Vandoren, a man with four children, most likely a widower. Jacob was also an immigrant from Holland and probably lived in the same community of Dutch immigrants.

Lucy and Jacob had a daughter, Mary, and they lived in Cape Girardeau.

Jacob passed away and Lucy again found herself in need, now with two children of her own.

Husband #3 was Burghard Juengling, a German immigrant. Burghard died just months after his marriage to Lucy.

Lucy’s last husband was John Henry Sander, also a German immigrant. John had two children, Anna and Hermann. Mr. Sander was a merchant in Cape Girardeau. It seems likely that John A. Vandeven, Lucy’s son, started his education in business at the Sander’s store in Cape Girardeau. I like to think that Mr. Sander was kind to my great grandfather. John A. was able to attend business college probably thanks to Mr. Sander’s interest in his future. In fact, John A. went on to have his own business, the Vandeven Mercantile, which continued to operate for many years, closing in 1969.

22 December 1888 at the age of 54. She is buried in Old Lorimier Cemetery in Cape Girardeau, Missouri.

Louisa County, Virginia Ancestors

I made the trip to the Louisa County Historical Society in January. Before I went I checked their list of files online and made a list of the ones I wanted to see. The personnel in Louisa were very helpful but the files I looked at were much less helpful. If only Janice Abercrombie had worked on the Moorman family genealogy! The files I looked at mentioned the name Moorman or Douglas, but only as a neighbor and all of the wrong generation.

I had planned on going to the Louisa County Clerk of Courts office to locate the will of Charles Moorman (1671-1757) but I didn’t need to add that stop to my trip. The Historical Society has a spreadsheet of wills as well as images of scanned copies on their computer system. Elizabeth Reynolds (1686-1765), Charles’ wife, also wrote a will.


Transcription of will of Charles Moorman, written 9 May 1755, recorded 24 May 1757, Louisa County, Virginia Will Book 1, page 30:

…Louisa County being perfect heath[sic] Sence and memory blest to [alm]ighty God for the same do acknowledge this to be my last will & [testa] ment this ninth day of May in the Year of our Lord One thousand [seven] hundred and fifty five which is as followeth Item I le[ave] unto [my be]oved wife Elizabeth all by household furniture and Stock of [?][torn] Horses and Mares with four Negroes named Toby Jack Cuffee [torn] Dina for her proper use during Widowhood or Life and after her [dea]th these four above named Negroes with the Increase and all [torn] forementioned Goods and Chattels to be Equally divided between my [torn] Sons Thomas Charles and Achelus Moorman Item I give & [bequ] eath unto my beloved Son Charles Moorman three hundred and [ei]ghty Acres of Land being more or less lying and being on Both [s]ides of [??shone] Creek the land whereon he no Lives to him his heirs and assigns forever Item I give and bequeath unto my beloved Son Archilus Moorman the Land and Plantation whereon I now live Containing four hundred and twenty Acres More or Less to him his heirs & Assigns forever Item I give & Bequeath unto my three Sons Thomas Charles and Achilus Moormen four Negroes named Harry little Harry Jenny and Nany to be Equally divided in value [be]tween all three above named Sons Item I give unto my Daughter Judith the wife of John Douglass One Shilling Sterling Money Item I give unto my Daughter Ann the wife of Thomas Martin One Shilling Starling money and I do appoint & [illegible] my three Sons Thomas Charles & Achelus Moormen with my wife Elizabeth Executors & Executrix of this my Last Will & Testament I desire my Estate may not be Appraised

Charles (his mark) Moormen

Signed in Presence of George Taylor, Joseph (his mark) Megea, Thomas Clark

At a Court held for Louisa County on the 24th Day of May 1757 this Will was This Day proved in Open Court by the oaths of George Taylor & Thomas Clark Witnesses thereto & by the [torn] Admitted to Record is recorded Teste James Littlepage [torn]


Transcription of will of Elizabeth Reynolds Moorman, written 29 January 1761, recorded 11 May 1765, Louisa County, Virginia Will Book 1, page 68:

Be it known to all men that I Elizabeth Moorman of Louisa County being of sound Mind and Memory for which I desire to be made truly thankfull to the Lord calling to mind the uncertainty of this Life do make and ordaine this my last Will and Testament in manner and form following Item I give and bequeath to my three Sons Thomas Moorman Charles Moorman and Archillis Moorman all my Money or Negroes if I should gain any whatsoever Estate else I should have gain’d since the death of my Husband to be equally divided Between the Three fore mentioned Sons Except my warring Apparel which I give to by two Daughters Judith Douglass and Anne Martin to be equally divided between them In witness whereof I have here unto set my hand and affixed my Seal this twenty ninth Day of January one thousand seven hundred and sixty one

Elizabeth (her mark) Moorman

Sign’d seald published and declar’d by the Testator as and for her last Will and Testament in the presence of us

George Thompson, Lucy English, Mary Thompson

At a Court held for Louisa County on the 11th Day of May 1765

This will was this Day proved in open Court by the Oaths of George Thompson Lucy English Mary Thompson Witnesses thereto and by the Court admitted to record and is recorded Teste Jame Littlepage Cl. court

Fresh Start

A new year is upon us and I’m taking up Amy Johnson Crow’s #52Ancestors challenge. The first prompt for 2020 is ‘Fresh Start’.

I have lived in Albemarle County, Virginia since the summer of 2009 which pretty much coincides with my interest in genealogy. Since moving here I have discovered that my ancestors, some going back to the 17th century, lived in two counties adjacent to Albemarle County, Orange County and Louisa County. When it comes to researching ancestors, it seems logical to focus on those who made their homes close to my own. In less than an hour, I can drive to Orange or Louisa and visit the historical societies there and go to the respective courthouses to search for documents that these ancestors might have left behind.

This year I am going to make a fresh start by focusing on these localities and the ancestors who lived near here. Phillip Eastin and his wife, Sarah Anna Hite Smith, lived in Orange County in the area of Barboursville. (In 1734, Orange County stretched out to the west as far as the Mississippi River.) A few years ago I went to the Orange County Clerk’s office and found a number of documents which I have transcribed. It’s time to take another look at those documents and see what I might have missed.

Phillip Eastin’s mother, Elizabeth Douglas, was a Quaker who lived in Louisa County. Her parents, John Douglas and Judith Moorman, lived in Louisa County. I have never been to the historical society in Louisa, nor to the County Clerk’s Office.

I have begun to prepare for the trip to Louisa. The historical society has spreadsheets itemizing their holdings. I have a list of files I will request when I go there.

I hypothesize that these Virginia families moved inland from coastal Virginia. This year I will work to follow the paper trail as far back as I can, hopefully to their arrival in the new world. A visit to the Library of Virginia is on my agenda to learn more about these forebears. I know there is information out there just waiting for me to find it!

Logan’s Chapel Cemetery

On the way home from a long road trip to El Paso, Texas, we stopped in eastern Tennessee to do a little genealogy research.
We arrived at Logan’s Chapel Cemetery outside of Maryville, Tennessee, late on a Wednesday morning in October. Thanks to the photo I found on FindaGrave.com it was very easy to locate the gravestone of Elizabeth Daniel Thomas, my 3rd great-grandmother. To see the line of descent from Elizabeth to me, click here.

ELIZABETH THOMAS, BORN AUG.9 1803, DIED JAN 20 1886

Next to Elizabeth’s stone is the marker for her husband, John Thomas.

JNO. THOMAS, U S SOLDIER, WAR OF 1812

On the other side of Elizabeth is Marion Thomas, their son.

MARION THOMAS, CO E., 3RD TENN CAV

After waiting for the sun to move long enough to illuminate Marion’s gravestone and take a picture, we were ready to head to the Blount County Public Library to look for some more information about these Tennessee ancestors.

There is a series of books in the library entitled, Gone So Soon: the Cemeteries of Blount County, Tennessee by Robert A. MacGinnis. In volume III, there is a list of interments in Logan’s Chapel Cemetery. Elizabeth, John and Marion are in the list and Elizabeth’s entry refers to an obituary included in the book. The obituary is a transcription of an article in the 27 January 1886 issue of the Maryville Times. Below is an image from the Maryville Times. The obituary appears on page 1, and the death notice is on page 5. This obituary tells us so much about Elizabeth.

The Maryville times. (Maryville, Tenn.), 27 Jan 1886. Chronicling America: Historic American Newspapers. Lib. of Congress. https://chroniclingamerica.loc.gov/lccn/sn89058370/1886-01-27/ed-1/seq-1/

There is no obituary in Gone So Soon for John or Marion. I searched the Library of Congress collection of historical newspapers and found this death notice for John Thomas. Unfortunately there isn’t as much detail about him as there is in Elizabeth’s obituary. I have seen other family trees that say he was born in Virginia in 1798, but so far this death notice is the only source for that date.

The Maryville times. (Maryville, Tenn.), 12 Nov. 1890. Chronicling America: Historic American Newspapers. Lib. of Congress. <https://chroniclingamerica.loc.gov/lccn/sn89058370/1890-11-12/ed-1/seq-5/>

I looked online for records about Marion Thomas and I found this image of a card for a headstone supplied by the government for Union veterans of the Civil War.

The National Archives at Washington, D.C.; Washington, D.C.; Record Group: Records of the Office of the Quartermaster General; Record Group Number: 92; Series Number: M1845 .
Headstones Provided for Deceased Union Civil War Veterans, 1861-1904.

When I saw the gravestone of Marion with the military information on it I assumed he was a soldier in the Confederate Army, but I was wrong. Company E in the Tennessee Cavalry was a Union regiment. For more information about the 3rd Regiment click on this link: https://www.nps.gov/civilwar/search-battle-units-detail.htm?battleUnitCode=CTN0003RC.

In the description of the database with the headstone cards on Ancestry.com, I saw that there were also some veterans of the War of 1812 whose headstones were provided. Considering the similar shield design on John’s and Marion’s stones, I looked through the ‘T’ section and found this:

The National Archives at Washington, D.C.; Washington, D.C.; Record Group: Records of the Office of the Quartermaster General; Record Group Number: 92; Series Number: M1845 .
Headstones Provided for Deceased Union Civil War Veterans, 1861-1904.

Now, you will notice that in the cemetery field it says ‘Crooked Creek’ and it sure looks like ‘Texas’, not ‘Tennessee’. Otherwise, the rest of the information on the card, however scant, is the same that is on the stone. Well, there is no Blount County in Texas, and there is no Crooked Creek Cemetery in Blount County, Tennessee that I could find. There is another piece of evidence that corroborates my conclusion that this card does refer to John Thomas in Logan’s Chapel Cemetery.

The Maryville times. (Maryville, Tenn.), 11 June 1898. Chronicling America: Historic American Newspapers. Lib. of Congress. <https://chroniclingamerica.loc.gov/lccn/sn89058370/1898-06-11/ed-1/seq-1/>

The next step to find out more about John Thomas is to look at records of the War of 1812. If only he had a more distinctive name, the search would be much less difficult.

To find Elizabeth’s parents, I will search the records of Carter County, Tennessee, and hope I find some folks with the name Daniel.

April 2019 Trip to Chicago & Indiana

We started out on our way to Chicago with a slight detour to Green Bank, West Virginia to visit the Green Bank Radio Observatory, GBRO. For mid-April it was very cold and windy with snow at the higher elevations in Virginia and West Virginia. Up there in the mountains of western Virginia on US 250, we stopped at a wayside which marked the site of a Civil War era redout where the Confederates encamped trying to keep the Union troops from proceeding over the mountains into the Shenandoah Valley.

It was so cold there that we didn’t stay long although the view from there was beautiful and there were panels of historical information that we did not read. My camera apparently does not function well in the cold, so I could only take a couple of photos before it refused to work. It’s a place we will visit again in warmer weather.

On to GBRO where we toured the science center with its many exhibits about space, stars and the history of radio astronomy and vowed to return with the grandsons. It’s possible to walk or ride bikes around the entire grounds of the observatory, so that could be a good opportunity for bike riding.

Back on the road to Chicago, we stopped for the night in Richmond, Indiana, the very eastern-most point in Indiana on I-70 after Ohio.

We made it to Chicago on Tuesday morning and went directly to Bethania Cemetery to visit the grave of Henry’s parents, John and Margaret Lukas. It was a beautiful spring morning, perfect for strolling around a cemetery. The office was open so we went in and got a map with the general location of the gravesite marked on it by the helpful woman behind the counter. The gravesite was just a short walk away from the parking spot inside the gate and we had no trouble locating the spot where Henry’s parents are buried. It was easy to spot – it was just about the only one in the entire section with a flower arrangement on it. My father-in-law was diligent about ordering a decoration twice a year for the stone after my mother-in-law was buried in 1998 and I want to continue to remember them with the saddle bouquet that he always chose.

Bethania Cemetery, Justice, Illinois

We looked around for any other familiar names and, of course, we found his grandparents, Anna and Jurgis Dumpis, his aunt and uncle, Maria and Emil Stanaitis, Martin and Victor Pauperas, two of three brothers of a family that Henry knew growing up in Chicago, and Franz Otto Leppert, a friend of the family.

After visiting the cemetery we went to the Racine Bakery and bought a loaf of Lithuanian rye bread. We ate lunch at the Three Brothers Restaurant which shared the parking lot with the bakery.

Back down the highway we went to Indianapolis. We spent the night south of the city and in the morning drove up to Holy Cross and St. Joseph Cemetery. Finding any familiar graves here was a much more difficult task than finding Henry’s family graves in Chicago. For one thing, we had never been to this cemetery, for another, the office was in a different location, so we did not have a map. I had copied down the locations from FindaGrave but it was difficult just to determine what comprised a section. There were some people in the cemetery doing lawn work but Henry stopped one man in a truck and asked if he knew about the layout. He filled us in on the history of the place. It had been two separate cemeteries which were merged into one. That explained the confusing number/letter combinations for the sections. He pointed us in the right direction and we found the markers for Margaret (RIng) and Daniel Lyons, my great-grandparents. Nearby were the markers for Helen Lyons Seiwert, one of their daughters, my grandmother’s sister, and next to her was a stone for John Seiwert with just ‘1925’ on it. He was Helen’s son, who was born prematurely and died shortly after birth.

1876 Margaret Ring & Daniel (Lehane) Lyons

Close to the Lyons grave were a number of stones with the name Quill on them. Daniel Lyons’ mother was Abigail Quill, so, maybe they are relatives. I don’t know that yet.

I remembered another interment I wanted to check. Hannah (Ring) Gleason, sister of Margaret (Ring) Lyons, was buried next to her husband, David Gleason. FindaGrave had photos of their grave marker, so I searched through quite a few aisles in the section indicated in their memorials and I was almost ready to give up when I found it. The cross on the top of their monument has fallen off and it’s on the ground in front of the stone, obscuring the names etched into it. I moved the cross to read the inscription and I couldn’t believe what I saw! In addition to the names of David and Hannah was the name Mary Ring. Mary was the elder sister of Hannah and Margaret. There is a memorial on FindaGrave for her but no photo of her stone. Now I know why – it was hidden behind the broken cross. I was very happy to see her name there and pay tribute to her. She emigrated from Ireland with her two sisters, never married but worked hard and managed to save enough money to buy a house in Indianapolis.

Holy Cross & St. Joseph Cemetery, Indianapolis, Indiana. David Gleason 1847-1911, Hannah Gleason 1854-1923, Mary Ring 1846-1928.
Ring sisters: Margaret, Hannah and Mary (and I would love to know whose shadow that is!)

After the successful cemetery trip we went to downtown Indianapolis and visited the Indiana Historical Society. That is a place well worth a visit. There were exhibits with live re-enactors relaying the history of Methodist circuit riders and of an archeological dig of Native American burial mounds. We went into the library at the Historical Society but I really was not prepared with any questions so we took a look at a county history of Dearborn and Ohio Counties, which I have seen on Ancestry.com. I found something I hadn’t seen yet, however. In a list of soldiers in the War of 1812 was the name of Dr. Samuel Martin, my 3rd great-grandfather.

The next stop on our agenda was St. Ambrose Cemetery in Seymour, Indiana. We were keeping an eye on the threatening weather forecast for the next couple of days so we headed down to Seymour and found the cemetery on the main street. Again, there were men working on the landscaping. As we were asking them where we might start looking for the graves of John and Abigail (Quill) Lehane/Lyons, a man pedaled up on his bicycle. “That’s the man you want to ask. He knows everything.”, said the first man. It turns out it was Tom Melton who has created all of the FindaGrave memorials for the cemetery. He showed us to two stones for people with similar names – Timothy Lehan and his family and Timothy Leyhan, but there was no stone for John and Abby. Tom took my name and email address and promised to let me know anything about the church records.

Now we had to make a decision – where to next? Since hearing the name of the town of Rising Sun, Indiana, I have wanted to go there. That’s where William English Reed, my 2nd great-grandfather was born. After eating at Crossroads Restaurant in Versailles, Indiana, we took a look at the map and decided to drive to Rising Sun by way of Dillsboro. The road we took, Indiana 262, is a narrow, winding road that follows a creek on its way down to the Ohio River. After a rather harrowing drive, we got to Rising Sun. We parked on a street in the small town and took a walk to the river.
It was a beautiful late afternoon, with a lovely breeze blowing across the river. We saw a couple of people sitting in rocking chairs on the porch of an old hotel (202 years old!) and we asked them if indeed this was a hotel and they answered in the affirmative. We found the proprietor who told us she had a room available, so we registered and took a walk around town. There’s a riverboat casino a couple blocks north of the hotel so we walked up there to check it out.

The proprietor of the hotel told us about a ferry that runs between Rising Sun and Rabbit Hash, Kentucky, so we planned on spending the $5 for the adventure of crossing the Ohio River on a ferry.

The next day we had breakfast at a nice little diner in Rising Sun, packed up our things and went north of town to catch the ferry across the Ohio River. On through Kentucky and West Virginia, with a detour along an alternate route to I-64 through West Virginia and we made it home before any storms caught up with us.

What I learned from this trip, first of all, is that there are some very nice people in Indiana. As far as genealogy research goes, being in the area where the ancestors lived was invaluable. Looking at maps certainly is helpful in visualising the lives of ancestors but driving past fields on which they grazed livestock, following a road along a rocky creek bed they most likely traveled with horse and buggy, and walking the same streets they walked to shop and tend to business was truly an inspiration. I am going to learn as much as I can about them and the lives that they led.

Irish Ancestors

Our direct Irish immigrant ancestors were John and Abigail (Quill) Lehane (Lyhane/Lyons) who arrived in America in the early 1850’s. John and Abby lived in Seymour, Indiana where John worked on the railroad. Their son, Daniel, was born in Indiana in 1852. Daniel married Margaret Ring 24 February 1876 in Indianapolis. To see the line of descent from Abigail, click here.

John and Abigail Lehane died in 1898 and 1897, respectively, and are buried in St. Ambrose Cemetery in Seymour, Indiana.

Possibly Anna Kelleher, mother of Margaret Ring

Probably Abigail Quill, mother of Daniel (Lehane) Lyons

Margaret Ring and her two sisters, Mary and Hannah, emigrated from Ireland in 1872/73. They were from the town of Macroom in County Cork. Mary, who never married, worked doing housework but managed to save enough money to buy property in Indianapolis. Hannah married widower David Gleason when she was about 39 years old. To see the line of descent from Margaret, click here.

1876 Margaret Ring & Daniel (Lehane) Lyons. This looks like a wedding photo.
Mary Ring, sister of Margaret and Hannah
Mary Ring, sister of Margaret and Hannah
Three sisters – Margaret, Hannah and Mary Ring in Indianapolis

My mother, Frances Margaret Read, remembered hearing her grandmother, Margaret, speaking Irish with her sisters Hannah and Mary when she was little. In the 1920 U.S. Census, Frances, then 4 years old, is listed as living with her parents, William R. Read and Agnes Teresa Lyons, in the home of her grandmother Margaret in Indianapolis. Agnes was the daughter of Margaret and Daniel Lyons, one of nine children.

Margaret died at the age of 76 years in 1931 in Columbus, Ohio, at the home of her daughter, Abigail Dumm. Her sister, Hannah, died in 1923 at the age of 69 in Indianapolis and Mary died at age 82 in 1928.

Margaret Ring Lyons, Indianapolis

“Unusual Name”

My favorite ancestor name is Marillis Killian. There’s just something musical about her name that appeals to me. I have also seen her name written as Amarilla, and even Mary Elizabeth. I would certainly love to know what her family called her.

When I first heard her family name, I thought that Killian must be Irish but it turns out that her grandfather, Andreas Killian, emigrated from what is now Germany. He landed with his family, including three children, in Philadelphia and then in the early 18th century migrated to what is now Catawba County, North Carolina.

Marillis was born in 1762 in North Carolina and died in Cape Girardeau, Missouri in 1819. She married Jacob Andrew Yount in North Carolina in 1782. She is my 4th great grandmother. Her daughter, Sophia, married Christopher Gross. Their son, Jacob Amos Gross, was the father of William Perry Gross whose daughter was Alice Vandeven, my grandmother.

There is a society of Andreas Killian’s descendants called the Andreas Killian Descendants Historical Association (AKDHA). They maintain a website with a great deal of information about the family and offer publications for sale about the history of the family.

“Challenge”

Lucia Wouters came to America around 1867 with her husband, Wilhelmus Van de Ven, and young son, John Anton. Leaving home to emigrate to a faraway land and surviving the journey was a challenge that many European immigrants faced and endured. Lucia was destined to face many difficult challenges in her life.

Soon after arriving in Missouri, Wilhelmus found work on the new Iron Mountain Railroad in southeastern Missouri. In the brief biography of John A. Vandeven, written in 1975 by his grandson, George, it says that Wilhelmus died working on the railroad.

As a widow with a young son, Lucia sought a new husband. She soon found Jacob Vandoren (Van Doren). The 1870 U.S. Census for Cape Girardeau, Missouri, lists Jacob, a laborer from Holland. It also lists children Lina, Herarda, John, Jacob and Mary, all born in Holland except for 2 year-old Mary. Below the names of the Van Dorens is John Vandeven, 4 years old, born in Holland.

‘Lucy’ took on Jacob’s household and little Mary came along in October 1867. After this census, I haven’t found any other information about Jacob. There are records for Mary Vandoren up until her death in 1936.

From 1870 U.S. Census, Cape Girardeau, Missouri

The next time we find Lucia she is married to Burghard Juengling. Burghard died in 1875.

Her fourth and last husband was John Henry Sander. Mr. Sander was a merchant in Cape Girardeau. In the 1880 U.S. Census seen below, there is John H. Sander, age 55 years; his wife, Elizabeth, 46 years old, born in Holland; daughter, Anna, 2 years old; son Hermann, 10 months old; son, John Vandervent [sic],14 years old and working as a clerk in the store; and Rebecca Sander, 75 year-old mother of John H. Sander.

It is likely that ‘Elizabeth’ is Lucy, given her age and the inclusion of John Vandervent as a son. If this all holds true, Lucy gave birth to at least three children in America. It is not yet known why Lucy’s daughter Mary Vandoren was not listed in the Sander household. She would have been 13 years old. Perhaps she was already employed and living elsewhere, possibly as a servant.

From 1880 U.S. Census, Cape Girardeau, Missouri

After a life filled with many challenges, Lucy died in December 1888, at the age of 54 and she is buried in Old Lorimier Cemetery in Cape Girardeau.

“First”

In June 2009, I received a phone call from Beckie Ferguson,
my 1st cousin twice removed. I had never met her, in fact, I didn’t even know she existed. It turns out that Beckie had been working on her genealogy for years and was trying to contact as many relatives as she could. I never did ask her how she got my cell phone number. I suspect that she found my brother and that he supplied her with my number.

My mother had died in December of 2008 and I was starting to think about delving into my own family history. After her death I discovered FindaGrave.com. I can’t remember exactly how I came upon it but that got me thinking about doing more. Beckie offered to send me her genealogy files and she needed some information about my family to fill in blanks on her tree. We share great grandparents on my mother’s side, Charles W. and Laura Anna Coffin Read.

In her files was a copy of the 1920 U.S. Census in Indianapolis, Indiana. As I scanned the document for my grandfather’s name, I saw at the bottom of the page, “Read, Frances M., daughter, age 4 11/12.” Perhaps others who research their family history have such a moment, but seeing my mother’s name in this census snapshot I was overcome with a wave of emotion that was completely unexpected. That was the FIRST time that I had such an overwhelming feeling. It was the FIRST time that I could look at a document and see an ancestor in her own time and place.

As I have continued to learn more about my family history I have come across other discoveries that have given me that thrilling ‘you are there’ kind of feeling. That’s just one aspect of doing genealogy that keeps me going.